No matter what: Be who you are, not who you’re not. Being who you’re not wastes everybody’s time. Everybody’s. Time. And that’s just plain disrespectful (especially to yourself).
Be grateful for what you have, instead of focusing on what you don’t. There will always be folks who have more/less than you.
Don’t second guess what you feel in your heart. Your heart in the end will rule.
The Zenful Blogger